After giving up on Carter, since he doesn't understand bribery yet, I even went as low as to tell Evan, "We WILL NOT go play with the trains at the book store UNLESS you GIVE me A NICE SINCERE smile! Yeah, one of my "Mother of the Year Moments"!
Oh and the funny thing is...I didn't really even notice that horrendously large pillow until I got home and was looking at the photos. So I guess I am semi-happy that none of them turned out too nice :-)!!